Nothing Personal, Its Only Business

Recently, I’ve spoke to a friend over a yumcha session. We touched on a lot of topic but the most interesting was about business and women. Now, its interesting for me because a Gongkia like myself, I haven’t got a girlfriend yet, and this guy had a few before. So like a good apprentice, I listened to him like he is my Sifu.

Since we are both new in the workforce we spoke about business and he related business to relationship with women. And it actually made a lot of sense.

He (a salesman by profession) said :

Talk to Women like Speaking to Business Owners
When a business owner is pitching his idea to you or his views and opinion, agree to it even if you don’t otherwise you make him look stupid and he think you are stupid. Read more…

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无聊

我的生活每天都很无聊，毕业一年了，工作都找不到，现在呆在家里，每天看电影电视剧，玩FACEBOOK和PLURK。申请很多份工作都无人问津，女友也没有，有时候很无奈，人生低处莫过于此，虽然逍遥自在，但总会有莫名的失落感。人也许需要一些动力才会积极的活下去，有些人是工作，有些人是爱情，还有其他的原因，我就是没这种动力，所以现在生活才像一片烂泥。

这部落格四个团员全是懒惰之人，所以这部落格能否持久都是未知数，我们都是玩票性质，可是这可以说我们第一次有恒心去做一件事情，我们还有很多大计划要发展这部落格。单身促使了我们的友情，单身促使这部落格的诞生，现在我们将单身男孩无聊生活搬到文字上，除了想大家认识单身男孩的生活，也许这也是我们无聊生活的延续。 Read more…

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I am Single. I am Desperate. I am a Loser. I am iGongKia.

Welcome to our life , our blog , the blog of 4 single guys who comes from very different backgrounds, but share the same fate….

These are the memoirs of our life and our pursuit for a dream girlfriend….we are in our twenties and never been loved because , some say we are unloveable….although we are not lengchai , not rich , not sweet talkers , damn lazy ,  and we rather watch anime , play games ,  and read comics rather than go clubs………we will not give up our quest for a dream girlfriend…this blog is about our life and yours too , if you share our dilemmas , our pain. Not only in love, but also in all aspects of life such as career.

20 plus years of failure and singlehood in life has us down and sad….but we are not broken…although we are like a broken bottle, we still are using cellotape , so still can tahan from totally breaking.

This blog is also aimed at understanding the biggest mystery of the universe. Which many scientists today still fail to understand….which is women. Even scientists today still belive that women are aliens (even a book was published ‘women are from venus’)….i am sure many guys like myself always wonder , why women say one thing, but go for other thing. Why they say they want caring man, but go for guys who treat them like how Malaysians bosses treat banglas. They say they want sincerity , but go for rich rich ppl, who play girls. Why they say wanna look for lengchai but , ended up with shrek. My brothers, i know many of u ask the same question….but dun worry my brothers…we are in this together. Hopefully we can go through this journey together in the quest of understanding and finding the perfect someone.

Yes, we are not perfect , but love is seeing the imperfect someone as perfect. So , my brothers, no matter how imperfect u are, i believe deep down my heart that , we still can get a pretty and caring girlfriend hehe. Like what Will Smith said in the movie The Pursuit of Happyness….”If you want it, Go get it “. Yes, brothers , if you want lengui and perfect gf even if u are poor and look like babi hutan , Go for it ! This blog will help you get motivated as u see us go through pain and barriers to pursue our happiness despite our many imperfections, so that you too, may be motivated to go for your dreams !

Come join us and together we help each other fulfill our dreams and find happiness in love and life !!!

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